Stop taking the bait at family get-togethers

STOP TAKING THE BAIT

There's no questions things escalate at the holidays. It's supposed to be a "happy" time, and all the old family ghosts start crawling out of the walls.

For instance, did you ever walk in to the family get-together and get hit by one of these. I hope not, but few of these escape from this sort of in-family junk. It's easier to stop than you realize. That's why I designed this course, and it really works.

• You wouldn't be single if you knew how to get along?
• At this house, we show up on time.
• She always arrives late so she can get lots of attention.
• Why do you always have to bring that up?
• When are you going to grow up?
• When are you going to learn some manners?
• Why don't you do like your big brother and ...
• Why do you always have to be so sensitive?
• YOU don't need any pie. You're too fat already.
• You eat like you were raised in a stable.
• Your sister doesn't act that way, why do you?
• Do you have to ruin every family get-together, why don't you just get along?

YOU LOVE THEM, NOW LEARN HOW TO GET ALONG WITH THEM.

QUIT TAKING THE BAIT. (And don't dangle it out there, either.)

The Difficult People course was designed to get you through the holidays, and benefit you for the rest of your life.

Stop being the victim, the nice guy, the sweet one, the scapegoat, the brunt of all the jokes.

IS YOUR BIG BROTHER STILL ASKING YOU TO PULL IS THUMB???

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Do You Use Negative Attention-Getting Techniques?

One sure way to get attention (and we all like getting attention) is to talk about your problems, how bad things are, how you've been mistreated, how unfair the world is, how inept your associate is, that you can't get good help, and other negative things.

However, there is a very high price to getting attention in this way. There's the obvious one - people don't like to hear it, will perceive you a "victim," and either avoid you, and also it's just human nature that we think our problems are because of fate or circumstances, while the OTHER person's problems are because of something in their character or something they've done wrong. (See psych. research on "attribution).

But the even higher price is that you are focused on your own negative things.

Talk about a good way to get STUCK!

Working on your attitude is one of the most important things you can do for yourself. It will open up your world. Change yourself (including thoughts and beliefs and emotions) and you change your world.

Take THE EQ COURSE and learn more.

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