It could be your anger ... your ego ... your rigidity ... your solipcism ... your lack of ability to use metaphor ... being locked in left- or right-brain mode only ... your intimidating syle that turns people off ...
THE BAD NEWS IS, IT'S YOURS AND IT'S ATTACHED TO YOU
THE GOOD NEWS IS, UNLIKE THIS LITTLE GIRL YOU CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOURS AND MAKE IT GO AWAY. EQ coaching works. Give it a try!
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