Thursday, July 27, 2006

Emotional Intelligence

LEARN EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE BECAUSE

A BRAIN IS A TERRIBLE THING TO WASTE

Of the 100 factors that make for success on the job, 67 are emotional intelligence skills. You can have an IQ of 150 and be dysfunctional because you can't handle your emotions or those of others. Take the EQ Course now. The future you save could be your own.

From the mailbag:

"It's starting again at work. Every time there's a lull and nobody has anything to do, they start gossiping and backbiting.

But this time because of the difficult people course I was prepared. I got busy. I used that computer-mode language you talk about.

What is it just human nature? What makes people be this way?

Anyway I think it's working. Thanks."

MOBBING & BULLYING take place for two reasons. First of all the nature of the bully. That's just the way they are - bad childhood, something missing in their personality, brain damage, sheer meanness. Victims ask questions and try to "understand" which is not the thing to do.
In fact the person they choose to pick on is so predictable and advertising their availability so strongly, the two are on a collision course.

I talked with many victims of mobbing and bullying and there's one phrase they all use. To find out more, order my Mobbing and Bullying eBook. We recommend the DIFFICULT PEOPLE course too, for real-life situations and how-to tips that really work.

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