Saturday, October 01, 2005

EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE - THOUGHTS & ATTRACTION

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AS A MAN THINKETH ...

"There is a thought in your mind right now. The longer you hold on to it, the more you dwell upon it, the more life you give to that thought. Give it enough life, and it will become real. So make sure the thought is indeed a great one." -- Ralph Marston

Are you one of those individuals who isn't aware of your "self talk"? These are the thoughts that rumble around in your head, things you're saying to yourself, and also worries, preoccupations and ruminations.

What you think about, you will attract. You will influence your world and your reality.

If your boss calls you into his office, which of these thoughts pops into your head:
* Great, a new assignment!
* Oh no, I'm in trouble.
* Wonder what she wants?

If you think automatically that you're "in trouble", and I'll assume this isn't the case, it's because of other messages you got at other times, probably a parent. Instead of BLAMING your parent for this, YOU have the OPPORTUNITY to CHANGE what goes on in your head.

If you enter the airport with these thoughts in your head
*they're going to screw up my luggage
*those idiots always want to strip search me
*it makes me furious to have to take off my shoes
*bet they've got something on the ticket wrong

What expression will be on your face? (a scowl, furrowed brows, squinty eyes)
What will your posture be like? (tense, closed, intimidating, rigid)
How will you feel? (tense, irritable, on edge, angry)
What will others think? (fear, disgust, dislike, avoidance)
How are they likely to treat you? (suspicion, notice, which will get you searched, avoidance, unpleasant)

If you're thinking instead about the good book you're going to read, or how well things generally go, or how excited you are to be flying to see the new grandchild, your expression and posture will be relaxed, you'll feel great and hardly notice any inconvenience, you'll be likely to get smiles, not searches, and you'll be treated with pleasure.

It all starts with your thoughts - what you're saying to yourself, what you BELIEVE is likely to happen. And this is completely under your control.

Today, think about your thinking.
Attract what you want to attract! It's your choice.

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